1. Women don’t like or enjoy sex as much as you do.
Is there anyone and the planet that still believes this? All you need to do is Read an issue of Cosmopolitan or watch an episode of Sex and the City, and you’ll know what’s really up. It doesn’t seem fair that you’re fighting hard for that tiny little bang (which is supposed to be your orgasm) while your girl is going off for the third time in a row, it makes you wonder who really enjoys sex more, right? So cannot progress in your love life if you believe this.
Whenever you are out at the club, keep this in mind: The girl you’re talking to wants to have sex every bit as much as you do. It’s just that she needs more time to relax and lose her inhibitions, because society is likely to label a more sexually active girl a “whore.” Just provide the circumstances in which she can feel comfortable in your company, and the possibilities are endless.
2. Women don’t like porn and aren’t turned on by visual triggers
There’s an urban legend that women don’t like to watch porn – well, my friend, it’s time to blow that one out of the water. The fact is they DO like to watch porn – it’s just that they won’t admit it.
According to my girlfriends and countless other women I’ve asked, about seeing a new man, a woman always looks at his ass first – and even librarian types will sneak a second or third glance. Your tool is not as important as you ass so keep that in mind when you are designing your workouts.
Although women tend to be more in touch with their other senses – sounds and smells – than men, visual triggers are just as important to them. Your girlfriend will occasionally watch a porn flick when she’s horny, although she won’t spend an hour every day searching for sex on Google like some of my loser buddies.
3. Women like badass machos who are rough and don’t show any emotion.
It’s a common misconception in our society that men should be as badass as Chuck Norris and never cry or show any emotion. If you think this is the key to getting laid, then I hate to be the one to break it to you, but being badass won’t make you a man. In more cases than not it is an indication of an inferiority complex and most women understand that instictively.
A man is confident and knows how to lead a woman and how to make decisions. But a man should also be passionate and capable of showing emotion toward a woman.
Would you prefer a teddy bear to a real, live girl? Just as you like it when your girlfriend gives you a kiss or caresses your face, she also likes to feel the same kindness from you, so don’t forget that, and it must be sincere, not manipulated. Learn to show authentic love, respect, and admiration for your women, it is OK.
4. Women need a lot of freedom, and they hate to be controlled.
Don’t be afraid to show emotion and tenderness when you’re with a girl – but please be careful not to become a wimp and lose control. A woman likes to be controlled by a strong man to a certain degree, and to keep her, you must be prepared to give her your own special brand of “tough love.”
There is truth in this old Rock Song by 38 Special.
A girl likes to feel secure and likes to have a guy who is able to protect her. But how can she feel secure that you can provide for her properly if you let her take control of every decision in your relationship? Taking control might feel nice to her the first time she does it. But after a while, she finds it increasingly boring and tiresome, so be man.
A woman does need freedom, but at the same time, she likes to be taken care of. Thus, a man who knows how walk that thin line between giving her enough space and making all her decisions for her will be very attractive to woman. So make sure you speak your mind.
5. You need to become a player and develop serious game to attract women.
To attract women, you don’t need any fancy techniques or skills. What you DO need is to learn how to take care of yourself and dress properly, to develop certain social skills, to live your life with passion (note that passion doesn’t have to mean bungee jumping; you can be passionate about everyday things too) and to loosen up and be yourself around women.
Nothing is more important than authanticity. Look I am all for reading all your can about picking up women. I think you should know and understand every trick in the book, for educational purposes. However true authanticity is the key. Be true to who you are.
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If you’re starting from ZERO, there’s a learning curve you’ll have to go through. Most important, you need to approach and talk to many women before you can actually come out of your shell and be your true self.
Interacting with many women is also key to finding your Manliness, which you may have been pressured to hide by society and/or your upbringing. Just lokk what most guys are doing, and do the opposite. Your shortlist for success is:
A. Take care of yourself.
B. Go out and socialize.
C. Be passionate about your life, and feel good in your skin.
Let go of societal pressure to have a girlfriend, and you’ll see that she comes to you when you least expect her.
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