Okay, you guys. So summer is finally here and sometimes when the weather outside gets hot, so does the romance. Oh yeah, and did you know that there are certain things that you guys can do to help during your summer crush into something more?
I’ve got into my vault and unlocked six amazing summer flirting secrets that you guys are going to want to take notes on. They are that good. Maybe even grab a snack so that you guys can remember these when the opportunity actually strikes this summer.
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Tip #1 Wear a wide-brimmed beach hat.
The reason for this one is actually really interesting. A wide brim hat actually can intensify and accentuate your eyes which are your most powerful flirting weapon. Have you ever noticed that so much flirting actually just happens in this area of your face? A floppy hat is the most effective because you can actually use it to play with your eyes and suddenly tease the person who you’re flirting with by kind of looking away and cover your eyes for a few seconds and then looking up to give them a flirty glimpse, which makes that eye contact even more special when it does happen.
And you don’t have to spend a lot of money either. This amazing floppy hat was $25 from H&M. Amazon has a large selection of floppy beach hats for less than $25.00 if you buy during the off season
#2 Be on sunscreen patrol.
If you’ve never heard of sunscreen patrol before, don’t worry because I just made it up. It’s just a way to get sunscreen on your crush.
There is nothing more caring than letting your crush know that they’re getting a burn and then being the one to ever so diligently ensure that they have their daily dose of SPF. “Oh my god, you poor thing! You’re getting a burn. Here we can use my sunscreen.” You see what I did there. Now, you can choose to be mildly flirtatious by using like a spray-on sunscreen, or you can be full-on gratuitous and use a lotion and lather them right up.
Either way, the choice is yours. This is a really great way to get your crush’s level of interest and get some skin to skin contact which is known to naturally heighten arousal. Plus, if your crush is into it, now you’ve established a relationship where touch is totally comfortable and it’s a lot easier to bring things to the next level.
#3 Capitalize on those sexy beach waves in your hair that we can only get in the summer.
Let’s be real now. There is nothing in human history that’s considered as sexy as a long, huge hair. So if you’re a long-term AttractLove.com subscriber, you’re going to know that the reason why long hair is considered attractive from a biological perspective is that back in the caveman days.
People were looking for a mate to produce the healthiest offspring with the best possible chance of survival and the condition of a person’s hair actually is a sign of their overall health and this totally applies to guys as well.
Obviously, that’s not to say that somebody with short hair can’t be freaking hot and sexy too. All it means is that if you do happen to have long and thick hair, summer is the best time to work it girl. So try using a beachy summery texture spray like this one. I love it so much. It is the Ultimate Bamboo Beach Ocean Waves texture spray.
Tip number four is to challenge him to a summer game that you love.
Something like beach volleyball is fun. So flirting by its very nature is supposed to be fun and it’s an amazing opportunity to show your crush who you are and how much fun you are. So saying something like, ‘Hey, I totally thought I could beat you in a game,’ can totally his heart racing and can actually open up more opportunities to chat because now you’re playing a game together.
Tip number five is super sneaky because it taps into subliminal association. Work, work, work
#5 as much coconut scent as you can
Girls listen up, things like Hawaiian Tropic and Pina Coladas, most people’s brains associate coconut scents with summertime and summertime is fun, relaxed, and hello? Sex!
So anyone who knows me knows that I love wearing coconut scents in the summertime and when I’m on vacation and I love anything coconut from Bath and Body Works, especially the Waikiki Beach Coconut. They’re super inexpensive but they’re really all you need. So you can totally use the coconut scent before you see your crush, or when you know you’re going to like a beach party or something we’re going to meet people, but I actually think the most effective way to use a coconut scent is actually in the presence of your crush.
#6 PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR LIP GAME
Now personally guys, I love number six, and this is to up your summer lip game. Everybody always forgets how important the lips are to effective flirting.
When you’re using your lips for flirting, the goal should always be to draw attention to your lips because this is the first step to somebody thinking about kissing you. So to draw more attention to your lips, a glossy lip is always a good idea, but in the summer you can exaggerate this look even more.
I love my Marc Jacobs one. This is the enamored high shine gloss and the shade is called Sugar Sugar, but while you’re wearing a high-shine gloss, you can start to experiment a little bit by doing some lip movements and you can try these in the mirror at home. They’re super easy.
The first is:
1) Biting,
2) Puckering
3) Llicking,
4) Pursing.
Ladies, let me know how these tips work out for you.
Have a great Summer!
