When you want to FLIRT with a man, here are FIVE of the CRUCIAL ELEMENTS:
1. Being “fun to be with” – that’s more important than anything else!
2. Knowing what to say to him… in any situation.
3. Being just sexy enough… without going overboard!
4. Letting your sense of humor show – without feeling like a stand-up comic on a bad night!
5. Knowing how to READ him… so you know if he’s getting more interested (or not)!
When you’re talking to a man….
There are times when you just need THE PERFECT WORDS TO SAY… TO ANYTHING HE SAYS TO YOU?
You know… something that you can SAY right off the top of your head…
Something that’s just the right answer to whatever he says to YOU.
Knowing How To FLIRT… gives you the answer!!
Flirting is what makes love exciting – whether you’re married or single.
Knowing how to flirt with men…. well, THAT is the beginning of getting together with a guy!
That makes it VERY important! Maybe it’s the most important love life skill you’ll ever need.
That’s because when you know how to flirt, EVERYTHING else is a LOT easier.
When you are a true Flirt at heart, you can have the love life of your dreams – for the rest of your life.
It’s absolutely true. When you truly know how to “flirt with men,” you hold in your hands the key to his heart…
AND the key to the hearts of all the OTHER men who WISH they were in your world!
In fact, you may find yourself in the enviable position of being able to choose between TWO MEN.
That’s what happens when two or more MEN want FIRST PLACE in your affections.
(Sure, I know – you don’t WANT men to fight over you! Neither did I, but listen to this:)
Two Men Arguing… Over Me??
Have you ever known the consternation – but the secret thrill – of having two men arguing with each other because each man wanted the other guy to disappear, so he could have you all to himself?
This actually happened to me… I have to say, it’s one of the most vivid emotional memories of my life.
I was dating two men at the same time – two entirely different but very interesting men. One was an artist; the other was a writer. Neither was famous but both were very talented.
One day they both appeared at my weekend place of work – which happened to be a public, outdoor place in New Orleans – at the same time.
They both were already unhappily aware of each other’s existence.
I’d never been in a situation like that one before in my life, but due to some breakups and makeups, I found myself with not just one, but two men who wanted me to dump the other guy in favor of them.
(I was trying to make a decision between the two, and it was getting complicated.)
These two men glared at each other.
Then they began quietly but intensely arguing with each other in broad daylight, just a few feet away from where I was working.
You could cut the tension in the air with a knife.
They detested each other – only because they each wanted an exclusive claim on my affections.
I never imagined in my wildest dreams that two men would argue over me…
I might even privately criticize another woman for getting herself in a crazy situation like that one!
But I have to be honest – a part me was deeply flattered.
It was quite a feeling to witness this event taking place and know that I was the reason for it. And I’m not a raving beauty or a supermodel.
(I was wearing a sweet backless sundress that day – that didn’t hurt the dramatic moment one bit.)
Let me assure you, you too can experience a moment like that one, by sheer virtue of being an amazing, charming woman.
It does not matter one bit how old or young you are, either.
Sure, it was a very sticky and tense moment – but it also made me feel deeply honored as a woman.
Every woman should experience a moment like that at least once in her lifetime!
Flirting Is What A Man Needs From You To Sustain Passion
What caused two grown, intelligent men to care enough about one woman to engage in a heated public debate?
I think it’s because I already instinctively knew certain things about men that many other women don’t know.
Actually, instinct isn’t the best explanation – I’d been studying this subject since my teens… studying what it takes for a woman to attract a man – and keep him attracted…
Few things have ever interested me more than the subject of how a woman attracts a man.
And over the years, I became something of an expert on what it takes for a woman to attract a man – and keep him attracted!
Flirting is where it all begins… the kind of flirting that can happen anywhere, any time – flirting with a guy you just met, or flirting with the man you’ve been married to for twenty years.
Flirting takes the ordinary and makes it extraordinary.
Flirting is what will cause a man to be devoted to you for the rest of his life.
Let’s face it, we’ve all seen relationships where women hold on to their men through sheer habit, obligation, manipulation, guilt, or a marriage license and children.
Men in this kind of set-up aren’t really happy, and aren’t really living.
What a man wants more than anything in his heart of hearts is a woman who knows his personal “flirt language” – whether he just met her, or whether she’s the woman he wakes up next to every morning of his life.
That’s because life without flirting… is not really living!!
Life Without Flirting …Is Just Existing!!
I’ll never forget the first time a guy flirted with me.
I was only twelve years old, so I didn’t even realize I was being flirted with.
We were part of a group of young pianists in a special music school.
This boy had teased me before, but this particular day he was merciless.
He pulled my desk right next to his. I was horrified.
I scooted my desk right back where it was supposed to be.
Then he pulled my desk back beside his again!
I awkwardly scooted my desk back once again. Then he did the same thing a third time.
Flustered and embarrassed, I looked at him, wondering if he was losing his mind.
He looked right back at me with a sly smile, and said, “You’re blushing, Mimi.”
I was speechless. But I’ll never forget how I felt after he said that.
Let’s just say that my eyes were opened – and not only to the fact that he was telling me he liked me.
That was the moment I first discovered the power of a flirtatious encounter. I don’t think I’ve been the same since!
Do I still remember his name, oh yes, I most certainly do! I’ll never forget it!
What’s YOUR Favorite Flirting Memory?
I know that you too can look back and remember many times when flirting with a guy has made your heart beat faster!
Think back for a moment – don’t those times when you found yourself in a flirting situation stand out in your mind, to be remembered by you forever?
But some people go through life without ever knowing the heart-racing thrill of a flirtatious encounter.
But let’s face it, getting the attention of any man can sometimes be tough (especially getting the right kind of attention)!
And the thought of flirting with men can be scary for many people – terrifying, in fact!
Yet deep inside we long to flirt, because flirting is tremendously thrilling!
Flirting provides some of the most cherished and memorable moments of your entire life.
In fact, flirting is the secret of all truly exciting encounters between a man and a woman!
Of course, some people erroneously think that you can do fine without an understanding of flirting. WRONG! Just take a look at their results.
A lot of people think about flirting and go looking for a flirting book.
However, the big problem is most books on this subject are filled with unrealistic scenarios, and downright ridiculous flirting lines that no woman in her right mind would ever want to say to a man!
Many of these books were actually written by MEN, who know what they THINK they want, but who don’t have the true knowledge of a successful “femme fatale.”
Any woman CAN flirt. What’s more, men love it! And they will love you for flirting with them.
I’m Mimi Tanner, the author of more than six books and programs on relationships, and I write an email column for women about relationships.
Well over one hundred thousand people read my columns every day!
Since my earliest teens, I’ve been devouring every bit of information there is to find on the subject of male-female relationships.
I deeply admire the “true greats” of relationship advice. Some are very well known, and some not so well known – over the past century.
When I began to create books and programs of my own, I wanted to create a program about the “Secrets of Flirting With Men” – and that’s exactly what I did.
“Secrets of Flirting” became the very first program of its kind – and it’s still the very best.
Just ask the thousands of people who own this program and who log in again and again.
If you ask me what’s the main goal of “Secrets of Flirting,” it’s this: to make flirting SUPER EASY to do – even if you’re shy!
I’ve done all the thinking for you so you don’t have to struggle for the right words.
You will never, ever be at a loss for words when you’re flirting.
You’ll also know how to act – and react – to men who are flirting with you!
I’ve designed specific Flirt With Men Formulas that will fit any situation, so you will know just what to do.
And for those times when you just need to know how to react to the crazy things and situations that may come your way with the men in your life?
I’ve got that covered too. You will have at your fingertips some EASY, all-purpose phrases for those times when a man gets you too flustered to think straight (we all KNOW how that feels)!
My key insights on flirting with guys are designed to meet the needs of even the most shy and hesitant woman.
My flirting tips will work for you no matter what your age – whether you’re 18 or 88!
Let my “How To Flirt” sessions be your top secret resource to build your confidence and have heart-racing fun in the process.
“Secrets of Flirting: How To Flirt With Any Man on the Planet” is the quickest, easiest, and best way to discover how to flirt with men.
You’ll get absolutely everything any woman needs to know in order to flirt with a man.
You’ll have every piece of alluring, romantic “ammunition” at your disposal and you’ll know these easy flirting formulas to use when you flirt with guys. You’ll always know what to say and do!
So… what exactly is “Secrets of Flirting”??
You might ask, “What is this online program? Do I have to be online at a certain time?”
These flirting lessons are all on a private website, and you will enjoy them at any time that is convenient for you!
Everything is on there for you to access at any time. You even have a full five years of access to this program, so you can return to it at your convenience at any time of the day or night – and get all updates and new bonuses.
Once you’ve gone through the program, even just a quick five minutes of logging in will inspire you again. Not only that but you’ll enjoy lots of “Flirting Shortcuts” and “Flirting Flowcharts” to give you quick answers when you need them.
You’ll get the flirtatious mindset just by logging in from time to time – and you’ll enjoy every minute of it!
The Men In Your Life Will Thank You For This!
And best of all, when you learn how to flirt, the men in your life will be overjoyed with the new, lighthearted way you interact with them.
A flirt makes herself happier and everyone around her happier too.
Flirting is something your man can never get enough of from you!
And you’ll never run out of men – if you take my complete program to heart.
If one romance ends, you can relax – because as a Flirt, you will have a new romance in your life any time you desire one.
Imagine how powerful it is to be able to conjure up love a hundred times easier than you can right now!
You’ll discover:
How to flirt with men in ANY situation – easily! You’ll know exactly what to say, even in a situation completely out of the blue
How to use the element of surprise in your flirting to become indispensable to your man’s happiness
How to look at him in the way that will focus his attention on you. He’ll realize you’re special, but will never realize quite why- and that’s exactly what you want
How to project the emotion and attitude that causes him to WANT to be around you
Subtle flirting tips for the woman who feels she is “too shy” to flirt
How to project innocence to get the attention and devotion of a man
How to charm and flirt with your husband or boyfriend like never before – he’ll wonder what has happened to you but he’ll love you for it!
The unspoken language of flirting: how to send him the messages that matter most – without saying a word
A flirting prop you may have never thought about that works every time
Easy ways you can practice your flirting-with-men skills to get ready for serious flirting with guys where it counts
How to move from flirting to a full blown romance
The easy way to a lovely posture, because posture is the single most important message that you’re sending to the world about you
The easy way to have a pleasant facial expression all the time (how to avoid the so-called bitchy resting face like the plague!)
How to have the body language of a master flirt
How to avoid being overly intense while flirting so you don’t scare a man off
How to flirt with men very innocently but send some very hot messages at the same time.
Exactly what attitude to project when you’re standing close to him that is touching and seductive at the same time
How to act in a way that will make the conversation instantly seem more intimate
How to look at him in a way that will make it irresistible for him not to kiss you
What to do when, in the middle of your encounter, you realize that you misjudged this guy, and you need to get the heck away from this character.
How to make sure you don’t step over the line with any man (or make an enemy of a woman in his life – the one you didn’t know about soon enough!)
How to deny, deny, deny that you were flirting with him (if you find yourself in HOT WATER because you flirted almost TOO WELL)
The core secret of flirting that matters more than all the others – knowing this one secret alone will transform the way you relate to men forever
How to flirt and get away with it and still be perfectly innocent
How to be gracious if you must say “no thanks” to a man who is interested in you
How to have a hypnotic effect on a man
How to appear to be momentarily intrigued but not too serious
Secret, subtle gestures that give you magic and charm with him without him ever realizing it; he’ll just know he thinks you’re charming
How to get inside a man’s head and meet his deepest psychological needs – and they are NOT what you think! YOU CAN LEARN MORE HERE.
If you are going to flirt, make sure your dressed for the occasion!