How to Ask A Guy Out on A Date

Tiny Hall

How do you ask a guy out on a date, specifically one you just met, and you don’t want to risk not ever seeing again? Now, if you’re thinking to yourself, I don’t ask men out, they need to ask me out, I don’t do all that. Stick with me because I think you just might like this technique; let’s talk about it.

I’m Tina Hall, founder of Total Love Makeover, and I help women just like yourself identify their relationship mistakes, then I help them do something different so that they can attract and keep the kind of love they really want.

Today we are discussing how you land a date with a stranger. I know you’ve had moments where you were talking to somebody and you guys seem to have a spark and then all of a sudden you had to leave wherever you were, and you were like, Lord, please let me see this man again and you never did. Well, this is an opportunity for you to take advantage of those moments. Your first step is to:

1. Spark conversation
   
   If you haven’t read the article on how to approach any man anywhere, please go do that, because this is going to help greatly with this step. Once you initiate conversation and things seem to be going well, he’s open to a friendly conversation and you certainly are you are well on your way.

But, at this step you might be asking yourself; is he interested or is he just being nice? Well, here’s where you want to pay attention to the clear signs of romantic interest. Is he moving closer to you, is he offering you information that you didn’t ask for, is he smiling, is his body turned towards you? Those are all really good signs that it’s more than just being nice.

But let me encourage you, you don’t have to be all in your head about this; are you enjoying the conversation? does he seem like he’s enjoying the conversation? Well, then if you don’t see a ring girl take a chance. here’s how.

• Window of Opportunity: First you want to recognize your window of opportunity. You’re already talking to him, and you’re thinking to yourself, I would like to see this man side of the post office. So, now you’re going to observe your window of opportunity.

This is usually one to two paces before he has to change activities, or before interruption. So, if you’re at the grocery store or at the gym, your window of opportunity is before he gets to the checkout line or moves to another piece of equipment. If you’re in line at say a Starbucks or maybe a Chipotle, it’s one to two people before he gets to the order clerk.

The reason why this is your window of opportunity, is because once he moves to a different task his focus on you is going to be broken, and then you’ll have to compete with what he really came there for. Now that you’ve seized the window of opportunity, you’re ready to make your move.

Thank him for your brief conversation and express to him how much you enjoyed it. “Thanks for talking to me, it definitely made my time in line way more enjoyable”.

• Suggest a Date: If his response is favorable, he’s smiling he’s got open body language he agrees then now it’s time to go for the final step. You can do this. You can bring it home by once again telling him how much you enjoyed the conversation but how much you dare not miss the opportunity to get to know him better. Then of course you subtly suggest a date. “Hey seriously, it was really refreshing to talk to you today, and I’m going to be honest with you; if I left here today and I didn’t tell you this I would really be kicking myself because I may not ever see you again, so I was just wondering if maybe you’re single and available, maybe we can meet somewhere on purpose and have a longer conversation”. If he agrees, congratulations you did it! You did it!

And here’s my suggestion give him your number but don’t take his. This way it allows you to sit back and see if he’s going to pursue you. Now, if he doesn’t call you, it’s okay. Don’t lose any sleep over it. Just try the technique another time another handsome stranger. You got this.

Remember first, spark up conversation, then observe your window of opportunity, next, thank him for the brief conversation and express how much you enjoyed it. Now, if his response is favorable take that last step girl suggest a date by telling him once again how much you enjoyed the conversation, but you dare not miss the opportunity to get to talk to him. Again, if it works that well, give him your number, and wait for him to chase you.

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