Understanding body language when dating is very impoartant
and quite frankly most guys are clueless!
Wake up Guys!
How many of times have you seen a friend go out on a date.
They think it went well, but the sad part is they really
don’t know. How can you not really know? Unfortunately
the chic avoids you, when you try to make a 2nd date
and that is when you finally get a clue!
I am speaking to the choir my friend. I can remember
thinking I wonder what went wrong? I can remember thinking
back through each moment of the date and our conversation.
When I learned about body language I became a date magnet.
I started to hear over and over, please call me, I look
forward to seeing you again etc. etc.
When I became aware the actions or reactions of a woman instead
of listening to what she says, you can better determine how a date
or relationship is going. It isn’t that they mean to lie,
but in order to be polite, plenty of women will say they had a
good time when they didn’t.
You have to learn to understand the cues that tell you
she really had a good time.
When on a date, there are two kinds of body language
you need to watch out for. These are negative and positive.
For this article Let’s look at the obvious negative signs:
1) She’s Holding Something Between You
When a woman his holding something between you, maybe her
drink or her phone, or something else, she is putting distance
between you. She is creating a barrier. This is very telling.
What she’s trying to do is make sure you don’t get too
fclose. She isn’t comfortable.
2) She’s Turned Away
If a woman is turned away while you’re talking to her, if her
face is at an angle facing outward, or maybe you notice that s
he keeps glancing elsewhere, she might be bored. This isn’t a
good thing when you’re on a date.
Try changing topics or suggesting a change
in location. You still may be able to recapture
her attention.
3) Her Arms Are Crossed
This is a sign of defense, and a very obvious
sign that she isn’t comfortable. Many people who
are upset with someone they are speaking to, cross
their arms. It’s psychological, but it’s a way of
protecting themselves. If this happens during your
date, try to figure out what might be the problem.
When understanding body language, it is important
that you also pick up on cues that suggest she may
need something or may need more attention. For example,
if a woman is hugging herself (different from crossing
her arms) she may be cold. Offer her your jacket. If you
see that she is fidgety, playing with her fingers, or has
her hands on her lap, she may be nervous. Ask her if she’s
okay and suggest a change in location if she’s not digging
the scene. See? Simply by understanding body language,
you can become a more attentive and a better date!
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